Arrange your Seder plate as illustrated in your haggadah, recite the kiddush and drink the first cup of kosher wine. Notes: a) You need to drink at least 1.5 ounces of each of the four cups of wine. b) Grape juice can work if you can’t stomach wine.
Now comes the festive meal. Dessert? Another piece of matzah—the afikoman.
Say the Grace After Meals, followed by the third cup. Fill up Elijah’s cup with wine, and open the door to invite him in. Finally, the hallel (songs of praise) is followed by the fourth cup. The Seder ends with the fervent exclamation: “Next year in Jerusalem!”