Respect and Honor
|Included in Hashem’s commandment to Moshe to appoint his brother Aharon and his sons as kohanim is the Biblical command: You shall sanctify him… he shall remain holy to you. The Torah commands us to acknowledge the sanctity of kohanim by showing them respect and giving them preferential treatment, since they are the ones who are entrusted to perform the sacred Service in the Mishkan and Beis ha-Mikdash. This mitzvah is divided into two parts: a) the mitzvah of honoring a kohen; b) the prohibition against using the services of a kohen for one’s needs. Let us elaborate:
The Mitzvah of Honoring a Kohen
Question: How do we honor a kohen?
Discussion: Whenever a blessing is recited in public, a kohen should be the one asked to recite it. Thus a kohen is the first one to be called up to the Torah whenever it is read. At meal time, he is the one who is asked to recite Kiddush, Birkas ha-Motzi and Birkas ha-Mazon. In addition, a kohen is served first, he is asked to speak first and is generally given more respect then a yisrael or a levi.
Question: May a kohen forego his honor?
Discussion: A kohen may be mochel (lit.: release others from paying him) the honor due him (except being called up first to the Torah). The reason why a kohen may be mochel his honor is based on the Rabbinic dictum that “one honors a man by doing his will.” Since the kohen wants to bestow upon someone else the honor due him, that, in turn, becomes his honor.
Question: Are there any exceptions to the requirement of honoring a kohen?
Discussion: The following situations are considered exceptions to the mitzvah of honoring a kohen:
The Prohibition of Using the Services of a Kohen
The second half of the obligation to honor a kohen is the prohibition against having him perform “services” for the benefit of a Yisrae. It is forbidden to ask a kohen to serve a yisrael or to send him on an errand, etc. Even if a kohen waives his status and allows a yisrael to use his services, this should not be done l’chatchilah, and certainly, the yisrael should never ask a kohen to perform a lowly task for him like emptying the garbage, etc. For this reason, it is preferable that a kohen not enter a profession which may require his yisrael employer to order him to engage in degrading types of work.
Question: When is it permitted for a yisrael to benefit from the services of a kohen?
Question: Why are some people not careful to observe these halachos?
Discussion: The poskim offer two possible reasons for their behavior:
1. Vayikra 21:8. There is a dispute among the Rishonim if this is a mitzvas assei min ha-Torah or mi-deRabbanan; See Magen Avraham 201:4 and Korban Nesanel 300 (Rosh, Gittin 5:20).
2. Mishnah Berurah 201:13.
3. Mishnah Berurah 201:12; Kaf ha-Chayim 167:101.
4. Aruch ha-Shulchan 201:4. This is the prevailing custom; Ben Ish Chai (Korach 14).
5. Rama 128:45; Mishnah Berurah 201:13.
6. Originally appearing in Sefer Chasidim 152.
7. Shulchan Aruch ha-Rav 128:60; Eishel Avraham 128:45.
8. Mishnah Berurah 167:75. See Piskei Teshuvos 201:3.
9. Mishnah Berurah 135:9. The custom is that even a private minyan always calls up the kohen first. See Sha’ar ha-Tziyun 12. See Igros Moshe, O.C. 2:34 and 3:20 for possible exceptions.
10. Mishnah Berurah 167:73.
11. See Sha’ar ha-Tziyun 167:65 and Beiur Halachah 201:1, s.v. v’im; Aruch ha-Shulchan 201:4.
12. O.C. 167:14 and Mishnah Berurah 71; 201:12.
13. O.C. 201:2; Mishnah Berurah 167:70.
14. According to some poskim, a kohen cannot serve another kohen either. Others allow this; see Kesav Sofer, O.C. 15; Beiur Halachah 128:45, s.v. assur; Aruch ha-Shulchan 128:75; Kaf ha-Chayim 128:283.
15. Mishnah Berurah 128:175; Yabia Omer 6:22. See also the Chafetz Chayim’s opening remarks to Shemiras ha-Lashon where he rules that one who speaks lashon ha-ra about a kohen (in the presence of the kohen) transgresses the halachah of honoring a kohen.
16. Rav S.Z. Auerbach, quoted in Nishmas Avraham, O.C. 128:10.
17. Mishnah Berurah 128:175.
18. Eishel Avraham 128:45; Aruch ha-Shulchan 128:72; Kaf ha-Chayim 128:282.
19. Beiur Halachah 128:45, s.v. assur. Aruch ha-Shulchan 128:72 disagrees.
20. O.C. 128:40-41.
21. Mishnah Berurah 282:12 and Sha’ar ha-Tziyun 15 quotes a dispute between Magen Avraham and Rav Akiva Eiger concerning this. See Emes l’Yaakov al ha-Torah, Vayikra 21:8.
22. Most poskim maintain that a kohen who has a blemish is included in this mitzvah. See, however, Minchas Chinuch 269, Aruch ha-Shulchan 128:72 and Teshuvos Avnei Cheifetz 71.
23. R. Tam (quoted by Taz 128:39); Mekor Chayim 128:45.
24. Magen Avraham 201:4. Many other poskim are also of the opinion that the kohanim’s yichus is questionable; see Y.D. 322 Taz 5 and Shach 9; Sh’ealas Ya’avetz 155; Chazon Ish, Shevi’is 5:12. See also Rama, O.C. 457:2 and Mishnah Berurah 22.
25. Mishnah Berurah 128:174; Aruch ha-Shulchan 71. See Rivash 94.
26. Maharit 1:149; Be’er Heitev, O.C. 128:83; Aruch ha-Shulchan, O.C. 128:72; Y.D. 305:55.